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Lindsay Holding Space's avatar

I loved your reminder that caring for our bodies isn’t punishment, it’s gratitude.

The older I get, the more I realize my body is always communicating with me. I’m trying to listen before it has to shout. Thank you for this beautiful reminder.

Wisdom Library's avatar

I really felt this.

That shift from seeing care as something we “have to do” to something we offer with a bit more gratitude… it changes the whole relationship.

And I relate to what you said about the body communicating. It’s always there, just quieter at first. I’ve had moments where I realised it had been speaking for a while, I just wasn’t listening closely enough.

That intention you have - to listen before it has to shout - is probably the most important part of all of it.

I’m really glad it resonated with you. If you want to deepen it have a look at the podcast on this topic.

https://wisdomlibrary.substack.com/p/the-home-you-forgot-youre-living-in?r=2r3u84&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

Man With No Name's avatar

Some really thoughtful reflections in this - especially around the idea of small habits, slowing down, and listening to your body before it starts shouting for attention. I liked the focus on sustainable, realistic self-care rather than the usual extreme “wellness” messaging. A very positive read, with a few lines that genuinely make you stop and think.

Wisdom Library's avatar

That idea of catching things before they get loud has been a big learning curve for me. It sounds simple, but in real life it’s easy to ignore those small signals until they build up into something harder to manage.

And I agree with you on the “extreme” side of wellness. It can start to feel like another thing to get right, which kind of defeats the point. I’ve found the more realistic, steady approach is the only one that actually sticks over time.

I like that you said it made you pause for a moment - those small pauses are usually where something shifts, even if it’s subtle.

Lama El Hajjar's avatar

Beautifully written dear. There’s something very real in what you shared, especially the idea that the body remembers everything. Sometimes it whispers for so long… until we finally learn how to listen. This resonates deeply. The way you described listening to the body before it has to shout is something I see so often in my work. We tend to wait for discomfort to become loud before we respond, when the body has been gently speaking all along.

Wisdom Library's avatar

Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

That quiet “whisper” stage is so easy to miss. I’ve done it myself - pushing through small signals because they didn’t seem urgent, until they became impossible to ignore. It’s strange how we almost need the body to get loud before we give it permission to matter.

What I’m still learning is how to pause earlier, even when the signal is subtle and easy to dismiss. Not always perfect with it, but even catching it a little sooner seems to change a lot.

I really appreciate the way you said that - it puts something very real into simple words.

Bianca Leigh's avatar

I love this quote Alexandra “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.”

I am currently training to be a Pilates instructor and breath work facilitator. One of the things I want to do is to be a great teacher/facilitator - and reading your post and hearing about what resonated with you is a great lesson for me!

The quote itself is powerful. Our body is our home, and looking after our home with love and pride is the most effective way to live ❤️

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I am happy you liked it.